how do men deal with breakups
How do I deal wth this breakup!?

Ok, me and my man broke up..THIS MORNING!!! Because I find out he’s been cheating and lying. He told everyone, me and his mom and my mom included, that he was gonna marry me and we would have a great life together. We are both old enough to be taking marriage seriously but not anymore, meaning I am not a little girl ya’ll I am old(I hate saying that) Well I know now that he obviously never meant it when he said “I love you”. I don’t know how to deal with this, I love him with all my heart and I’ve done everything to make him happy. How do I deal with this?

Well, you just have to know that it was his loss. It’s going to hurt for a while, but eventually you will get over him. Whatever you do, don’t think it was your fault. Because it wasn’t. Obviously he wasn’t willing to settle down. Just try and do something to get your mind off of him for a while. Hope you feel better soon!