relationship advice … breakdown of the relationship of six years?
my boyfriend of two years recently left me. I had become emotionally absent near the end. This absence was a direct result of not having started a career. she has been out of college for three years. our relationship was under lot of stress. I was paying 90% of bills, wedding expenses were discussed, and the inability to save enough money to consider buying a house. There tried to show their support, their pursuit of a career, but eventually I became belligerent. I felt that she would not help the relationship. I felt lonely and anxious Most of the time. I have serious love. its lack of a career was the only thing that was killing me. manifested in me being a jerk towards the end. I can do something to CAN fix all this?
Do you feel like he was not contributing financially, or had more to lack of participation? If she is really trying of getting a job (sending multiple resumes each week, going for face-time/interviews, etc) there is much you can say about it. If, however, she says he is trying, but never saw any evidence, you may have to accept that you are kidding. Most people do not want to be lazy, and there are things we do to fill their time. If she is upset with "busywork" instead of trying to resolve what has driven a wedge between the two of you and not know, she must have brought it up. If you know all that, however, and is still intent on drawing all the money in the near future … may have to leave. Remember not to marry people for what they are being-who marry them for what they are.
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